Should we make criticism to children and how to make criticism to children — judge yourself by reading the article below
Сriticism to children about their behavior
Once I ate borsch and a drop fell on a white t-shirt. «What is it…» I thought. But then she forgave herself. Itself OK need to forgive different blunders.
One day, little Max was eating soup and doused his shirt clean. «Try is careful,» — flew on my machine. I really wanted to be perfect. So I decided. And I’ll try to make some remarks during the day. Those that fly on the machine in adults in the direction of the child’s misses.
In the morning I wandered into the kitchen and saw in the sink in the evening, the Cup was unwashed.
— Did you have trouble washing? — In ear. — You have to discipline yourself. You’re not gonna be any good.
— Brrrr — — Waved her head. Explanatory. I didn’t make any sense. Sensible is when your entire life on one job. I’m the tumbleweed.
Beginning to wear on, if you are going for. Keep your back! Wear your shoes carefully. And in General, the blade Shoe to use. Don’t know where? Don’t you? You’re always a mess. Yeah, yeah, use your finger to help you put on shoes. So that’s why you have nail Polish beautiful and not!
Mood the beginning of fall. Caustic stuff those comments — just like acid. Walking down the street, birds, beauty, kicked an Apple.- Socks off. You’re not wearing shoes. Already at home, cooking dinner, opened the locker above his head to take a plate. Discovered. And forgot to close and kaaaak with a sweep head on the corner of the door — boar! In the eyes of the stars. My head hurts. And in the inside ear: — I told you! How many times do I have to tell you, close the door! Vooot, solve.
Then I sat down and was sad. And in ear — What’s doing, lady? Little housework?
And then, then … it got to tears. Because under the supervision of such a voice to live it is unrealistic. It is to live. And when is that voice your mother? Since then, we play football with max fallen apples-in the summer. And in winter the ice floes. Somehow half-light of the subway walked, kicking ice floes big and small. We laughed. And I didn’t care about the shoes!
When he’s sad, I always hug him. Better than words. In General, better than any words.
Love and embrace yourself and your children.
Seivice in itself obnoxious commentator. Let the memory of childhood will remain knocked socks, the stains from the delicious soup, laughter and confidence — you love and accept anyone.
I think the article is clear for the following: if you want to make a remark to children — try it first for yourself. It is because of the constant comments from all sides now children do not want anything: no sports to do, no normal learning, no enjoy life.